What to Expect

Gentle Guidance,
Every Step of the Way

From your first phone call to the day of the ceremony, I’m here to support you with care and professionalism.

The Process

How We Work Together

01

Introductory Call

We start with a no-obligation phone call so you can ask questions, share a little about your loved one, and see if we feel like the right fit.

02

Meeting in Person

I come to you — at home or somewhere comfortable — to hear your stories, look through photos, and begin building a picture of the person we’re celebrating.

03

Writing the Ceremony

I craft a fully bespoke ceremony script, drawing on everything you’ve shared. I send it to you for review and we refine it together until every word feels right.

04

The Day

I arrive prepared, calm and professional. I conduct your ceremony with warmth, making sure your loved one is honoured exactly as you wished.

05

Keepsake Script

After the service, I provide you with a keepsake copy of the ceremony script — a lasting memento of the words spoken on the day.

What’s Always Included

Your Full Service

  • An introductory phone call
  • A meeting in person or virtually
  • A fully bespoke ceremony, drafted and refined for your approval
  • Unlimited contact in the lead-up to the service
  • Professional delivery of your ceremony on the day
  • A keepsake copy of your ceremony script
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FAQs

Common Questions

What is a funeral celebrant?

A funeral celebrant creates and delivers a personalised ceremony that celebrates and honours the life of the person who has died. Unlike a religious minister, I don’t follow a set order of service — every ceremony is written especially for your loved one and your family.

Do you only do non-religious ceremonies?

Not at all. I can create ceremonies that are entirely non-religious, spiritual, or that incorporate elements of faith — whatever feels right for you and your loved one. My role is to reflect your wishes, not impose a framework.

How far in advance do I need to contact you?

Please get in touch as soon as you feel ready. Funerals often happen quickly, and I will always do my best to accommodate you, even at short notice. The sooner we speak, the more time we have to craft a truly personal ceremony.

Can the ceremony be held anywhere?

Yes. While many ceremonies take place in a crematorium or at a graveside, your ceremony can be held anywhere that feels meaningful — a family garden, a woodland, a beach, a village hall, or any other location. The choice is entirely yours.

What areas do you cover?

I am based in South East Hampshire, covering Hampshire, Surrey and West Sussex. Travel is included for ceremonies within 30 miles of Southsea. For locations beyond this, mileage is charged at £0.45 per mile.

Can family members contribute or speak at the ceremony?

Absolutely. Many families choose to include readings, poems, tributes from family members, music, or other personal elements. I will work with you to incorporate whatever feels right, and I can offer guidance to anyone who would like to speak but feels nervous.

What is a living farewell?

A living farewell (or living funeral) is a celebration held while a person is still alive, giving them the opportunity to hear the heartfelt words and memories their loved ones wish to share. It can be a deeply meaningful and comforting experience for everyone involved.

Still Have Questions?

I’m Here to Help

There are no silly questions. Please don’t hesitate to reach out — I’m happy to talk things through at whatever pace suits you.

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